Why Marriage matters? Simple. Marriage is the START of a Family. Congruency of both you personal and your professional life is directly impacted by the quality of your home life.
Keeping an eye on the priority is wise. Too many people define their victories around their professional life, yet there is no long term gain if you win professionally and loose personally.
In our Signature Training (ONE SAFE LOVE™) you will Learn to:
Love, Laugh and Have Fun.
Know your spouse, often for the first time ever.
Learn how to Listen, and be heard.
Identify behaviors that do not serve you, and destroy marriage.
Resolve any and all conflicts, and know how to do that forever.
Work for common goals and set the ground rules of your business partnership and personal life.
Agree to Agree or don’t move forward. Determine to make tough decisions together.
Don’t be DEAD right, be flexible and buoyant.
Eliminate power struggles or control issues.
Learn to Negotiate - Power with opposed to Power over. (SAFE POWER™)
Discuss your visions of business, family, and marriage so that together you can create a shared vision for your future.
Have realistic expectations, and a path to pursue them.
Allow one another space and stop bullying each other, be ONE.
Breath, learn how to Breath.
Discover your individual strengths and weaknesses. Discuss how your strengths can complement one another and offset those things you are each not so great at accomplishing.
Don’t complete, Complete. Value each other's strengths and talents.
Trust that when one of you says you will do something, it will get done. Model follow through.
Share responsibilities and pick up the slack where and when you can.
Men, do the Laundry. Women, make love.
Have a plan and implement it together.
Be sensitive to your differences and embrace those.
Be Connected and Congruent at all times.
Resolve Conflict, Deal Directly.
Impliment a life giving Grace and Mercy, while dealing with real issues directly.
Communicate with Mastery. Love and Respect one another, and of course, trust.
Build Trust, Develop Character and Live Passionately.
Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.
Love doesn’t strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.